Book Review: Healing Words by Dr. Michael Woods
(4 of out 5)
An impassioned and thoughtful plea from a doctor to doctors to say "I'm Sorry"

Given all that has been recently reported on physicians saying "I'm sorry," this short, straightforward book couldn't have come at a better time. Dr. Michael Woods has written a practical, motivational book directed at physicians on the why's, how's, and what's of apologizing to patients. Drawing from personal experience, stories from other doctors, examples from other industries, and research data, Dr. Woods does not hold back in making an impassioned plea for physicians to master this tricky part of the patient-doctor relationship.

At ~82 pages, you can probably read this book in one or two sittings (In fact, I read most of it in the waiting room as I waited to see my doctor. Luckily he didn't have to apologize for anything that day). Dr. Woods moves quickly from topic to topic, breaking down just about every psychological, cultural, and emotional aspect of "I'm sorry" - why it's so difficult for physicians in particular to apologize, what a meaningful apology entails, what the patient is thinking/feeling in apology-worthy situations, how to build more authentic relationships with patients, and even what exact words you could say in difficult situations. He even advises to apologize for: "(1) being late for a scheduled appointment; (2) receiving a patient complaint about poor service from hospital or office staff; and (3) Interrupting a patient who is speaking - even if you must take an emergency call."

Overall, doctors should apologize appropriately (and probably more often)- it's the right thing to do, it's the compassionate thing to do, and if that's not enough, it might even prevent some lawsuits.

Definitely this is a book written by a doctor for doctors. For the admin readers, something to read and then pass along to your clinical leadership (and risk management dept).

I'm just sorry that I didn't read this book sooner.